Welcome aboard !I don't load those in 9, but I do load them in 38 and 357. So if you don't mind some insights in place of experience, then here goes....
? You're right, any round nose is simply going to push the paper aside and not give you a clean hole at all. You need something with a stepped periphery to "punch" the paper. Some plain conical nose FP will do the same thing without the step. If you can't get these to work, then you might try the
Berry 124gr Hollow Base FP.
? You can seat any Berry RN 115, 124, 130, 135 or 147gr out to 1.169" if you'd like. So the 1.070" is purely your choice, and not a requirement. I like to load the 124gr between 1.130" and 1.140". They do good at that length.
? The sharp shoulder on your MB SWC (being the full .356 diameter) is going to foul the CZ rifling, so you won't want more than ~.040 sticking out of the case. But on the other hand, you won't want the step flush with the case either. You want the lead shoulder to take the hit as it slides up the ramp and into the chamber, and not the sharp edge of the case mouth which could get caught on something.
? On a revolver, you have to load to the crimp cannelure, but auto bullets don't have those. But since your bullets do have a lube ring
you'll have to bury that grease inside the case. Then you are somewhat free to play with the OAL (plus or minus ~.015") as long as you stay out of the rifling. If it looks like this you'll be good to start experimenting....
? The lead bullets are larger diameter, so you'll need slightly more belling. You should be able to seat the bullet without shaving any lead off. If you start to see lead "whiskers" piling up under the seating die, then that's not enough belling.
? If you are using dies that give you a choice of seating anvils (like Dillon, or Hornady) then you want to use the
flat anvil. If you are using Lee, then you may want to order the optional extra seating anvil for $9.
There is a "push test" we use to determine exact maximum OAL, but that's a lot of trouble with lead bullets, besides you'll be restricted by the lube ring as we already discussed. Also I highly suggest starting out with a moderate speed powder like HP-38/ Win231 or N320, then work up to hotter powders if necessary.
Get ready for a pile of smoke!